hMmm, lEts sEe.. the abOve is the common fEeling thAt we all hAve in us. it is innAte. every person tt lives in this world wiL feel thAt way, inevitable. BUT, let me clArify something here, u feel heartbroken not ONLY SOLELY when ur hurt in ur love lyfe. Nope, doesnt work tt way. u cAn also feel heartbroken by other factors such as, when ur own family members said harsh words & treAt u badly or ur friends ignore u, breAk their frenship wif u or just hAvin something against u. So, get this, when some states that HE/SHE is HEARTbRoKEn, its widen ur mind cApacity and figure oUt wAt the cAuses ar & noT immediately bE nArrow & jump to concLusion tt thAt somEone is hurt in the lovelyfe onLy! GET THAT! :)
So, whAt does it feel to bE H.B? yeAhh, here's how u'll feEL :
>crAshed. >crushed. >brOken into piEces, shattered. >hurt, really hurt. >utterly disappointed wif the person. >DEprEssed. ( if nOt controlled or alleviated)
But u hAf to remember, now, im talkin in gEneral coz dis is the truth, the fact, the reality of lyfe. If u feel H.B, & all of the above by that certain someone, & fEel thAt u hAte tt persOn for whAt he/she had done tO u , ask urself, WHY?. Why do i fEel this hEavy weight of hAtred & rEvenge in me? let me tell u the answer. It is because, u lOve them. LOVE. We usually hear this : The amount of love u haf = to the amnt of hatred u haf for the person. And it is kinda true. At 1st, i think it's crAp like, how come ur love equals to the hate? Nonsense! But after some consideration & referring to real lyfe examples.... i stArts to agree wif thAt phrAse. hMm..
So, lEt me offa u some suggestions when u feel H.B. :
1. Lock urself in the room, cry it all out! dun lEAve any piece of pain left in ur heArt. ( Note: Crying doesnt mean tht ur weAk. NEVER! Crying means, to let go of ur frustration in a sensible way. So, cry ur best!)
2. Don't taLk to the person tt hurt u for the day. Don't. The more u talk, the more things will get heated up & it hence may result in dire conseQuences. So, jus ignore tt pErson for thE whole day!
3. Take a drink. just a half cup of plain water wiL do. ( this is to calm ur self & ur hormones dwn)
4.Distract urself. Blast ur ears wif lOud music or on the tv wif ur loudest volume. the Decibel that u can tAhan tht is. Dun make urself deAf pls! Note : Biggest mistake ppl haf is, they wil on music BUT, wrong choice of songs! PLs ppL, NO SLOWSONGS/SENTIMENTAL/LOVESONGS. NO!)
5. gEt a good slEep afta ur eyes fEel slEepy. SlEep helps to sOothe ur hormones dwn.
6. Wake up nxt mornin, go oUt ALONE and hAng out at some nice place wher u can sit & reLax (beAches, viVorooftop..etc)
7. After spoendin some time alone, u might wanna call someone u can confide in & share ur woes & pain. after thAt, trust me, things will gEt bEtter, i wont guarantee tt it wil be soLved, but at the very leAst, u haf clEared ur thoughts & deaL wif it in a rational & cOoL way! sOo, lEts bE hAppy nOw! :)
ChEers! Don't frEt abt the whole incidence anymore okAyys? yeAh, it might leave somE scAr, probAbly quite dEeply inside of u! This is basic SciEnce, : we all hAf potential energy (PE) in us. If we do some actions, it wil convert into kinEtic energy (KE). if wE stAy rooted to one pLace, it wil just remAin as PE. And thEn, PE mAy accumulate & wE wiL just gEt ovErwEight by thE accumuklating PE inside of us & then, wE wiL compAlaint abt bEing FAT. LOLnESs!! So, lEts work our ass off & haf fun wif funn peopLe like ME! ----->sElf-procLaimed uhh ShAi! :P
To my dEarEst bAbes who fEels dOwn & H.B.: wAke up! Look up! chEer up! stAnd up! lEt ur hAir up! and listEn tO this music in my bLog! it is 'JUST STAND UP' by thE stRong ladies in the entertaiNment indUstry! ENJOYYYY! :D :D :D